Sorry, I didn't meet your expectations, but you were acting slightly weird. First you ask a perfect stranger quite straightforwardly personal questions, then you get offended, when they are not answered. Of course it won't work! You should ask that sort of things privately, use notes, don't write on the freaking main page. Start with mutual interests. We have the Labyrinth fandom in common? Start with that, not with what are you doing at the moment! Not everybody is ready to answer to this question to some one they don't know in real life. Wish you the best of luck.